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Ukraine: Humanity as a lifelong mission

Liubov Pavlivna Ponomarenko and Valentyna Ihnatiivna Yalovenko
Olena Florenska/ ICRC

A full hundred years of service to the Red Cross exists between Valentyna and Liubov – two women who have been dedicated to the Movement and to serving people for decades. Recently, a team from the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC) visited to congratulate them on such a remarkable milestone.

Valentyna Ihnatiivna Yalovenko has headed the Central Local Organization of the Ukrainian Red Cross Society (URCS) in the city of Kherson for 55 years. Her colleague from the Kherson District Organization of the Ukrainian Red Cross Society, Liubov Pavlivna Ponomarenko, has led her branch for 45 years.

Valentyna continues to live in Kherson city, but Liubov left Bilozerka when her house was damaged in hostilities. Now, though she remains in the Kherson region, she lives in Chornobaivka, which is extremely difficult to access.

The beginning of their journeys

When Valentyna Ihnatiivna joined the Red Cross as a young woman, she had no idea where she had ended up: she knew nothing about the Movement or the organization itself. At first, she was in despair because she did not understand all the terms and abbreviations her colleagues used. But eventually, her desire to be the best at everything pushed her to learn the history of the Red Cross Movement and understand its essence.


“I spent six months in the archives. I gathered information bit by bit. I had excellent material on the history of the Red Cross in the Kherson region. Then, when I became a lecturer and went to some organization, I already knew what to tell them and how to say it,” Ms. Valentyna tells us.

Valentyna Ihnatiivna Yalovenko
Olena Florenska/ ICRC
Olena Florenska/ ICRC

Liubov Pavlivna, on the other hand, took up her position already well-versed in the Red Cross and Red Crescent Movement.

“When I was elected head of the organization, I already understood everything, because I had gone through blood donation, I had been part of sanitary teams, sanitary posts, drug-control posts – I had gone through all the work of the Red Cross.”

Liubov Pavlivna Ponomarenko
Olena Florenska/ ICRC
Olena Florenska/ ICRC

While working as a medical professional, she has been closely connected with the Red Cross Society. She considers the medical and humanitarian fields to be very closely related, because they have the same goal. 

“Whether it is a medical worker, a volunteer, or the Red Cross – we had one idea: goodness and mercy. The idea of helping a person,” emphasizes Ms. Liubov.

About humanity

For both women, humanity is not simply one of the fundamental principles of the Movement. It is their life’s work, which they have carried to people and always followed, wherever they themselves were.


“For me, the concept of the Movement meant kindness, mercy, treating a person with love. My mission was always to help a person, anyone who found themselves in trouble, who at that particular moment needed some kind of help. And it could be not only material assistance, but even a kind word,” says Liubov Pavlivna, who had a rule – never to leave work until she had resolved the problem with which a person had approached her.


Valentyna Ihnatiivna gives a similar answer. For her, humanity means giving all of one’s strength to help every person in whatever trouble they may find themselves. She recalls how, once exhausted, she was returning home, completely absorbed in her thoughts. Suddenly, she heard a small boy, about ten years old, who was riding nearby, sobbing. After asking him some questions, she discovered that he did not know his mother, while his father had simply thrown the child out of the house. Ms. Valentyna took him home, fed, bathed and clothed him, and contacted the Department of Education.


“He asked: ‘Why are you taking such care of me, as if you were my mother?’ And I said, ‘Because I work for the Red Cross!’ – they took the boy to an orphanage – ‘I told him, whatever happens to you in life, remember this forever: always go to the Red Cross, they will always help you there!’”

Life during armed conflict

Both women spent their lives helping those who found themselves in trouble or difficult circumstances. But they could not have imagined the hardship they themselves would face.


The escalation in 2022 caught Valentyna as she was visiting her parents’ house. Instead of spending two days there over the weekend, she stayed for three months, while her family knew nothing about her.


There was no electricity, no water, no food. Even though neighbours shared what little food they had with each other, Ms. Valentyna was terribly hungry and lost weight because there was simply not enough. Valentyna struggles to find the words, pausing as painful memories come back.

“I didn’t see bread for about three months; I didn’t see it at all! One time, the neighbours took me with them, and we were given a bowl each, like the kind of porridge they cook for pigs, something like that, so we could make some fritters.”

Liubov Pavlivna survived her house coming under fire three times, but it was eventually destroyed by a drone.
“The house was on fire. The car caught fire, and I was worried because my husband wanted to pull it out because it was blocked, and I was pulling him back. Then the firefighters came to help, and I am so grateful to them.”
Ms. Liubov was forced to move with her family to Chornobaivka, but their house was damaged there as well one morning, and she herself barely survived.


“I had just picked up my [coffee] cup – and then there was a huge bang! The blast was so powerful that it tore out the middle window frame. And it was heavy, and it hit me on the head. How did I survive?! But I don’t remember any of it. I had both a heart attack and a stroke,” the woman recounts with difficulty.


“[This] has only strengthened my belief in the mission of helping others. When I saw people’s suffering, I saw it every single day..!”


Ms. Valentyna agrees. She says that in 55 years of work, she has never thought about leaving. 

“Whatever happens – whether it is a volcanic eruption or a war – the principles of the Red Cross remain unchanged. If a person believes in them, nothing else can move them from that position.”
 

“I will stay only with the Red Cross...”

Head of the ICRC subdelegation in Odesa, Diana Stoecklin, was among those celebrating these milestones. 


“Meeting people who have worked and dedicated their whole life to the Red Cross Red Crecent Movement is a very emotional moment. To work for the Movement for a whole life and still, after 45 years, after 55 years of work, still be so motivated, and such strong ladies – for me, this is very inspirational. I think we all should look up to them.”


Accepting congratulations on their work anniversaries with the Red Cross, the women say – it was all not in vain! Looking back on decades of hard work, challenges and achievements, ups and downs and difficult times, they tell us that even if they had to start all over again, they would still choose the same path.
 

ICRC/URCS representatives in Kherson region
Olena Florenska/ ICRC
Olena Florenska/ ICRC

Despite the challenges these women have seen over the decades of their work, and their own painful experiences since 2022, they do not lose faith in goodness and humanity and as is customary during celebrations, make one most cherished wish.


“I want to wish everyone happiness, good health, and only peace! May peace come to our land! Then there will be goodness, then there will be beauty, then everything will be alright.”